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Journals Recent Entries Best Entries Best Journals Journal List Search Journals. Community Links Members List. A few months ago I started a new job sexual innuendo conversation flirting coworkers became friendly with a married male coworker. Our offices are quite close to each other. Light flirting started on his side - maybe a compliment to my new haircut.

I loved the positive attention and sexual innuendo conversation flirting coworkers it flirtng nothing inappropriate, so I did some mild flirting back, and started to develop an office crush. Most of the time we talk, it is innocent enough - about our kids, our homes, etc. Only sometimes does it cross the line - meaning I know my husband would flip if he knew. He told me he had a sexual dream about me we'd both had innocent dreams about each other that we had talked about.

He said it was really dirty, but I was really good, etc. I got a little caught up and said half-jokingly I wanted some details. Later that day I was driving home and he was a few cars behind me. He called me and started saying very sexual things that he wanted to do with me, and what he wanted to do the next day on his desk, etc. I stayed on the phone for minutes, but then the magnititude of the call set in and I said I had to go to the store, hung up, and took another road home.

Soon after this, he had to travel for 2 weeks; I took this as a sign that I needed to cut off my crush, forget about him. I did well; we exchanged a few emails but they were totally above board. He came back, and for a good week and a half I was professional but not as friendly as I had been. Then he approached me and said I've seemed distant towards him.

I felt like the wind lesbian dating stories knocked out of me I told him everything's been fine, and we've warmed back up to each other, though with nothing inappropriate. Is there any possibility that coworjers can be friends, that the dirty talk of that week can just be chalked up to a one-time thing?

Perhaps I read too much into it? He really is a nice guy If so, how to break myself of this infatuation? I've had such a strong emotional and physical response to this man! FYI, my marriage is really not in bad shape; we have flirtign good sex life, get converastion pretty well; my biggest complaint is that after 10 years things are not terribly exciting.

Share Share this post on Digg Del. If you knew this was bad behaviour, why did you condone it? By participating, you're a perpetuator as well. If you have marriage problems, coworkerx help for it. Concersation use someone's attention and your life's lack of excitement to start an office affair. Originally Posted by MrsJaneDoe. MrsJaneDoe Yes I can understand that the flirting, the innuendo, the sex talk is flattering, inhuendo, sexy and add sexual innuendo conversation flirting coworkers liking for the person and a frisson of sexual chenistry and it's like reading a recipe for an A in the making.

Sort of like getting the ingredients together for it to happen, or to take the focus away from what you want or need in your marriage, it also takes your attention away from any solutions too. These feelings can exist in a marriage, just takes a bit of mind shifting and effort on both parts. I think most of us have had the kind of attention you are speaking about, the yardstick I use is, if I wouldn't do it in front of my H's face, then I sure as hell don't have any business doing it behind his back and vice versa.

Yes after 10 years marriages can become stale, even though there is love, it can feel like a groundhog day of sameness, but that just takes a bit innuenco effort to wake it or shake it up. I also think that being the person you can be with the co worker can be difficult to suddenly be that way with your H simply because it has become 'normal' for you both to have slipped into husband and wife, or mother and father roles. Well it is in my book anyway.

I echo what someone else said about how you might feel if you thought it was your H doing this with a co worker, hold that thought, take a good look at your husband, do you really want sexual innuendo conversation flirting coworkers lose him for a quick fix of sexual tension?


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